@screem@yarn.yarnpods.com Matrix whenever possible (ie, close friends and family who are willing to set up an account just to talk to me… I host my own instance for my family), Signal as a second choice, but unfortunately WhatsApp is the de-facto way to communicate where I live. Still, could be worse, at least it’s e2ee (in theory / if you believe them). The one I absolutely refuse to use is FB Messenger…